We say that girls are generally more emotional and pay attention to feelings. As long as you can make her feel in love, it will be natural for you to pursue her. But there are exceptions. For example, some girls are very rational. Do you know what the characteristics of rational girls are? How should we pursue rational girls? Below I will give you a detailed analysis of primary school love.
1. Characteristics of rational girls
Rational girls generally have the following characteristics:
1. Rational girls have a very clear sense of boundaries. She always keeps a distance when getting along with others, so boys will find it difficult to develop a relationship with her.
2. Rational girls don’t like to rely on anyone and like to be independent. Things that can be solved by oneself never want to trouble others, so boys will feel that such girls have no way to deal with them.
3. Rational girls have a strong sense of self-protection. They chat and socialize with strangers and never reveal their private information easily. Men feel that they cannot get into her heart.
4. A rational girl has the ability to think independently. She has her own ideas about everything. She will not easily cater to mainstream opinions, and it will be difficult for you to convince her.
5. Rational girls do not value material things so much and pursue the spiritual world more. Therefore, she is often more interested in self-construction, learning, and hobbies cultivation.
6. Rational girls work rationally and objectively, and always discuss matters when talking. Don't put too much emotion into it, act decisively and neatly.
7. Rational girls have good tempers and are kind-hearted, but it is difficult for them to get to know each other deeply. I don’t like useless social interactions and will spend more time building myself.
8. Rational girls are self-disciplined, sober, and know the gains and losses of advancement and retreat.
9. Rational girls often have higher-level pursuits. If they are excellent themselves, they will also admire and like strong people who are better than themselves.
Based on the above characteristics, it is not difficult to see that rational girls are indeed difficult to pursue.
2. How to pursue a rational girl
1. Value matching
If a girl is very rational, even if you show some thoughts of love when you approach her , she will objectively and carefully weigh the pros and cons. Know what benefits you can bring to her, what drawbacks, etc. Because she doesn't want to waste time on an ineffective and fruitless relationship. So if she doesn't like you at the beginning, then you will never be able to enter her world again. Either she will directly tell you about your relationship, or she will reject you and draw a clear line with you.
So, if you want to pursue this kind of girl, you must first increase your own value. You also develop some hobbies, enrich your life, and pursue more spiritual pursuits.
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It is best for this highlight to have an intersection with a rational girl, or even a method that interests her. These approaches have the best effect.
For example: She usually likes to draw, and you say that you happen to be able to do it too. She usually likes to practice piano, and you said you have learned it too. These can be cultivated later, but if you want to get closer, you have to start with topics that interest her.
If you can enter her spiritual world, the subsequent development will follow its course.
3. Gap identification
No matter how rational a girl is, there are still parts she is not good at. This is your opportunity to get close to her, and if you can identify and help her fill this gap, she will be interested in you. For example:
Girls can’t cook, but you cook delicious food. - She will be obsessed with you.
Girls don’t understand fitness, but you are good at it and can teach her. ——She will ask you to teach him.
If you can help her in the parts that she is interested in and needs, you can slowly develop them in depth.
Use the above three points to pursue a rational girl, and then use the methodology to slowly increase her trust in you and cultivate feelings. Although this kind of feeling is very rational, it is enough for you to fall in love.
