A cold girl will always give people a feeling of being as cold as ice and keeping strangers away. It is undeniable that chasing such a girl is much more difficult than ordinary girls.
But in fact, everyone needs feelings, and their cold attitudes are mostly just disguises. They need to be in this state to judge who really likes her, the good and bad her, so as to filter out the people who only focus on her appearance. To a certain extent, they are more likely to be attracted by each other's sincerity and are more eager for a beautiful relationship.
In other words, with the correct pursuit method, they are even more likely to pursue success than ordinary girls. So how should you pursue an aloof girl?
Now I will tell you 3 methods. You will find that pursuing an aloof girl is not as difficult as you think.
1. External attraction
When talking about appearance, the first thing most people think of is appearance and facial features. , appearance, height, etc.
Everyone thinks that if you look good, you will be attractive, and if you are ordinary, it will be difficult to stand out. Indeed, good-looking people are inherently attractive.
However, the body, hair and skin are influenced by our parents. Do these innate differences make it difficult for us to establish external attraction?
No.
I have to admit that most people can be described as ordinary in appearance. After all, it is impossible for everyone to be Takeshi Kaneshiro, Tony Leung, Edison Chen, and Daniel Wu.
In fact, everyone is on a very different level.
In this case, why are there visual differences between people?
Everyone embellishes things differently.
The so-called whitewashing refers to the beautification on our innate basis. For example, hairstyle, clothing, body shape, etc.
Regarding appearance, we interviewed many girls, and most of them gave the following definition of "good-looking":
First, neat hairstyle. You can shape your hairstyle according to the style you want, but no matter which hairstyle you have, it must be kept clean and fresh.
Second, dress cleanly. The price actually doesn’t matter. If you’re not sure about the style, basic models with texture and low saturation are a good choice. In addition, the clothes you wear should avoid stains and wrinkles.
2. Be confident and not blindly obedient
To be confident and not blindly obedient, simply put, is to be yourself without being arrogant or arrogant.
What needs to be emphasized is that this is not to encourage everyone to let themselves go and do whatever they want, but to have their own system of behavior.
Your own behavioral system means that you have your own goals and principles in all aspects, including work, life, and relationships.
All our actions are within this system, and we will not be disrupted by external interference.
Therefore, you need to be confident first and then not blindly follow.
For example, if we want to be more knowledgeable and content, we should not be distracted by popular movies and TV shows.
Maybe it attracts a lot of attention, or maybe most of the people around us are obsessed with it, but we need to know clearly what is useful to us and which direction we should go in, instead of being afraid of being Complain about being unsociable and follow blindly.
For example, I will not change my favorite type because of the craze for wide-eyed and face-slimming.
For example, you will not become a licker just to get someone or something.
In short, confident, principled and systematic people always exude charm.
Tip: There is a limit to your confidence, and don’t exceed it, otherwise you will be rejected if you are overconfident.
3. Pretending to be indifferent
Many friends have failed at this point.
When I see the girl I like, I can’t wait to be together. I even imagine turning off the lights and exercising before I even get to know her.
Very understandable.
But, most girls are slow to warm up. Before they have the desire to get to know each other, if the other party comes up and violently manipulates us, it will destroy our good impression in their hearts.
Because this will make the other party feel a sense of crisis that the relationship has crossed the line. More importantly, if we just stick to her for nothing, she will feel that we are cheap.
Therefore, you should pretend to be indifferent in the early stage, and after getting familiar with each other, you should take care of them from time to time beyond the relationship of friends.
When she wonders in her heart why we seem to be indifferent to her but still care about her, when she asks you if you like me, it is almost done.
In short, just be patient and understand it, and you’ll be fine.
