Although many boys complain verbally that their girlfriends are clingy, they actually dote on their girlfriends in their hearts. They will only feel strange when their girlfriends suddenly stop being clingy. Because although a girlfriend's clinginess may be a bit annoying, it also shows that her girlfriend really takes her to heart. So what's the reason if your girlfriend suddenly stops being clingy? Is it normal?
1. Your girlfriend has saved enough and is disappointed
In fact, at the beginning, your girlfriend will also report to you before doing anything, and send you a message when you get up in the morning. If I see anything interesting, I’ll share it with you. But slowly, she realizes that you are so busy with work that you have no time to talk to her. She became unaccustomed to it again and had troubles with you several times. You said that you were very busy at work and she should understand you. She reflected on it and realized that it was indeed her fault and she shouldn't have disturbed your work. But he found that you were not really busy with work. You had time to drink and play games with your buddies after get off work, but you just didn’t have time to reply to her messages. She also cried, argued, acted coquettishly, and felt wronged. She told you that she wanted to be with you. You stay with her, but what you tell her is to be sensible, and men should have their own social interactions... Slowly, your girlfriend will stop being clingy after she has accumulated enough disappointments, and she may break up.
@ The soy sauce tsundere meow: He said that I should be more sensible. As his girlfriend, I should understand him and work normally. He is too busy and wants to relax with friends during his break. I should be considerate of him. When he is with his friends, I cannot rush him or lose my temper. I must give him face. He said, I am too sensitive and think too much. Okay, I'll give you what you want. I can't think of anything else. It's all my fault for letting you fill my world too full. It's all my fault, I only think about you all day long. It's all my fault, I'm too clingy to you. In this case, I won't stick to you anymore.
2. Girlfriend’s self-protection
In fact, the transformation of your girlfriend from clingy to non-clingy is also a state of self-protection. It may be your actions or words and deeds. Make her wonder if you are worth it. It may be that she doesn't feel that you need her, that you don't care about her, as if she can be replaced at any time. Maybe she realized that "love" doesn't have to come from "love", so she turned her attention and energy away from you and put it back on herself. So you become less irreplaceable. She is giving herself a sense of self-sufficiency, self-protection, and a sense of fearlessness even after being thrown away by you.
3. Your girlfriend doesn’t like you anymore
It may be that your girlfriend suddenly stops being clingy. She likes you, but feels that you are not so important anymore, so she is too lazy to tell you about her daily life and trivial things. She feels that if she tells you, she is doing meaningless things. This situation is quite miserable, and there is a high probability that she can only We broke up and cut our losses immediately. And if oneIf a girl really doesn't cling to you anymore, has become accustomed to carrying everything by herself, and no longer reveals her emotions to you, then your status in her heart is no longer high. She may even feel the same whether you have a boyfriend or not.
No matter what the reason is for your girlfriend to suddenly stop being clingy, as long as your girlfriend has not directly said that she broke up, it means that she I still have you in my heart. I suggest you have a calm talk with your girlfriend and share your thoughts. Also, do you really like a clingy girlfriend?
